Why did i make an advice column? I made and an advice column to help any of you that need it the most. I have been through alot and i know that there are some of you out there going through the same thing. So i listed some topics and a short paragraph on how to get through them. If any of these topics helped you please comment me, by going to the front page and saying what ever you need into the comment box and clicking "comment". you can also ask me to make other topics just tell me what ones, and i will try my best to tell you some advice on it. enjoy. :)
Crushes:
Most of us are in our teen years, and there’s always those who seem to grasp our attention away from everything else. Admit it, there’s at least one boy/girl out there who you can’t keep your eyes off of. All of us have had this issue, and i’m gonna help you get through it. First of all, there’s the hardest crushes...the ones that we can’t have. Those suck! And it pretty much gets worse every day. What you have to consider is those that dont accept you or return your feelings, apparently arent worth your time. They dont deserve your heart if they arent going to give you theirs in return. Everyone has a "true love" out there, some of us are just chosing the wrong people to fall for. All thats gonna happen is you’re gonna get hurt in the process of winning their hearts, and the ones who arent willing to pay attention to you arent worth wasting your time on. I mean, we’re teenagers, and there’s people out there who are a trillion and one times more amazing than this jerk who doesnt even care to look your way. Look for someone unbelievably perfect...you never know what kind of people are right in front of you. And when your previous love wakes up one day realizing that he cant live without you, you’re gonna be waking up next to the person who already knew. Keep your head high gorgeous, there is so much out there for you to look for, you just need to open your eyes. Good luck, and you can always ask if you need anymore advice.
Enemies:
Nothing can lower your self esteem faster than our worst enemies or bullies. While most of us are smart enough not to listen to the cruel words of a selfish brat who has nothing better to do than to gain personal confidence by trashing on others, some of us have a harder time ignoring them. All your enemies do is try to make you lower, and boost their own self esteem and get pleasure from other people’s pain. Remember, kindness is you enemy’s most hated thing. They have nothing to say if you try being nice to them...but really, who’s being the mature one if you’re not fighting back? Seriously...you have nothing to gain by kicking someone’s butt...and you’re not gonna get farther in life or achieve some life threatning goal if you have awesome comebacks. So just ignore them and act like what theyre saying has no effect on you, eventually they will get the clue that they are being retarded and immature and back down. Hope i helped. And always remember you can come to me for advice.
Appearance:
Im about sick of society and its obsession with idealistic beauty. In other words...i hate how people these days will only talk to you if you’re beautiful or if you have big boobs. Im not critisizing anyone with big boobs, im critisizing the guys who will only look your way or attempt to start a conversation if your bra size is larger than an A. Anyways...what we have to remember is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you have friends who accept you for who you are and what you look like, you dont need to change yourself in order to fit in. It would just make no sence. Be ignored for who you are, not adored for who you arent. If you want to change your style, do it to your benefits and become what YOU want...not your peers. Your appearance is nothing more than an expression, and if people cant accept who you are, you dont need them.
Friends & Their Addictions:
From experience...i kno that there are those friends who are addicted to stuff you know they’re better off without. If you’re like me and you want to do whatever you want to help them, heres what you can do: first, make sure you’re talking to them while theyre sober. I made the mistake and thought the person i was talking to was sober, and i told her everything about how she needs to stop the crap that shes doing, and the next day she forgot everything. I was soooo pissed! anyways..and when theyre sober theyre gonna pay attention and listen to what you’re saying. And then start off by telling them how much they mean to you, and how amazing of a person they are...yada yada yada. Basically...start off with all the positive stuff. Then tell them how much the stuff theyre doing is changing them. I dont wanna say any starter sentences, but im sure you’ll think of something when the time comes. Tell them stuff like "i really dont wanna lose you, but i dont like it that you do drugs/drink, and you’re going down a path i dont want to follow...and if you continue to do drugs/drink...then im losing you either way" its not very much...but it’ll make an impact on their choices if theyre really your friend. And feel free to message/comment if you need more ideas on stuff to say. I’ll be glad to help.
Beauty tips:
DONT use apriocot scrubs.All they do is scrub off skin && make it worse && itll rele damage ur skin when u get older.
Also b sure tht u wash ur face twice a day && after washing put a lotion on ur face [itll help keep all the good stuff in ur pores].
Hair:
Ok if u have hard 2 deal with hair [greasy or dry] u should use a peppermint or tea tree oil shampoo [if ur algergic && rele need help msg me].U also shouldnt shower all the time [lyk evry other day is good not lyk evry week cause thts jus grody].
If u have frizzy hair u shouldnt use a blowdrier or straightener,itll only make it worse && dry it out more [U can use them evry once n a while].U should use a good moisterizing shampoo && conditioner [Herbal Essences™ has a kind 4 frizzy hair u could try]
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